“What’s for dinner?”
The shopping. The schedules. The same three conversations. There is always something to organise, and less space to simply be together.
Our story · Our reason
We had both
We had both
been divorced.
We couldn’t stop asking why.
We’re Tim and Nina. After our first marriages ended, we spent years looking back. What had changed between us and the people we once imagined growing old with? What had we noticed—and what had we never really talked about?
Through interviews with couples for our blog, we began exploring a question that felt deeply personal: when someone we love changes, do we take that change seriously enough to understand what it means for both of us?
We change as individuals. But we experience those changes as a couple.
“We ask our partner
to accept who
we’re becoming. Have we asked how it feels for them?”
What changes for one
of us touches both of us.
Our bodies, needs, confidence and desires can change. Menopause is one example: a woman’s experience deserves care and understanding, while her partner may also need space to talk about feeling uncertain or unsure how to help. Neither person should have to navigate it alone.
When sex becomes less frequent or affection feels different, one partner may feel overwhelmed while the other feels unwanted. Expecting someone to simply accept a change can leave its impact unspoken. We wanted to encourage a gentler question: “What are you going through, and how can we find our way through this together?”
Why a game instead of a book?
After those interviews, we considered writing a book. But we worried it might be read once, then left on a shelf. We wanted something couples could return to as their lives—and their relationship—continued to change.
That’s why we created Reconnect. A game to bring those conversations into everyday life. A question can help you notice something new. A playful moment can make room for laughter. A thoughtful reward can become a chance to ask what kind of affection feels welcome today.
The purpose of Reconnect
Notice the change.
Notice the change.
Understand its impact.
Find your next step together.
Reconnect invites you to talk about what is changing, listen to how it affects each of you, and explore what you both need. Acceptance doesn’t mean hiding your feelings or giving up your boundaries. It means meeting each other with curiosity and care, and finding ways forward that respect you both.
Start with one question ↓